Posted by Katie on May 10, 2009

Happy Mother’s Day!

I hope all of you are hav­ing a won­der­ful day. I know I am!

My boys got me this:

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Isn’t it cute?

Here’s a Mother’s Day Inter­view from my 3 year old, Declan:

My Mom

I really love it when my mom puts my clothes on.

My mom likes to wear underwear.

My mom always tells me, “Go to time­out.” (Yikes!)

The best thing she does is feed me breakfast.

It makes her happy when we get on our bikes, go bye bye and have breakfast.

My mom loves to relax by sit­ting in the chair and talk­ing to me.

I like it when she reads bed time stories.

The best thing she cooks is pancakes.

When my mom shops she likes to buy food and fabric.

My mom’s favorite house­hold chore is ironing.

My mom’s favorite TV show is Spongebob.

If she could go on a trip, she would go to the park.

I love my mom because she is a good, nice mama!

Thanks to Let’s Explore for the won­der­ful idea!

Posted by Katie on March 15, 2009

Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-03-15

  • is blog­ging: Twit­ter Weekly Updates for 2009-03-08 http://tinyurl.com/bls9gt #
  • - Dizzy, chills, 102 fever, hack­ing cough, scratchy throat, tired. Think­ing I should ‘call out’ tomor­row, but I always feel guilty doing so. #
  • - You know it’s bad when I have no desire to play WoW. #
  • - Feel­ing bet­ter, but I have to bat­tle DES to try and get brother some assis­tance. If they tell him no because WE make too much I will flip! #
  • is enjoy­ing the rare fast food lunch. A free soda and fries cour­tesy of hangintherejack.com and @jack­box #
  • - There is some­thing so sat­is­fy­ing about pulling weeds, espe­cially in antic­i­pa­tion of a new veg­gie gar­den! #
  • needs to raise $145 in 10 days for her lit­tle broth­ers birth­day bike fund. Would you like to help? Every dol­lar counts! #
  • - Does any­one have a tiller and/or a land­scap­ing rake I can bor­row? #
  • - Gilbert, Az res­i­dents can request a FREE Com­post bin by check­ing out this page: http://tinyurl.com/dxpgry Got mine today! We’re excited! #
  • @shae­lynette Bum­mer about the chick­ens. We’re able to have them here but I’m wor­ried about the dog and would feel guilty coop­ing them 24/7. in reply to shae­lynette #
  • will be lonely tonight. Any­one NOT have plans? #
  • @shae­lynette Accord­ing to gilbert city ordi­nances, fowl are per­mit­ted granted they are caged and cleaned after. Then it depends on your HOA. in reply to shae­lynette #
  • @shae­lynette http://tinyurl.com/ctrv3c Search for “fowl” in reply to shae­lynette #
  • @shae­lynette Never thought to check zon­ing, would it go against the ordi­nances? There’s a poor zon­ing map here: http://tinyurl.com/d8go2j in reply to shae­lynette #
  • - Poor D is doing an asthma treat­ment. I hope he feels bet­ter soon. #
  • @kingrarr Hope you feel bet­ter soon! #
  • @Hah­nee Aw, how come? in reply to Hah­nee #
  • The fam and I are going down to the Black Bear Diner tonight. It’s all you can eat Fish Fry! #
  • - Breast­feed­ing mamas, here’s your call to action: http://tinyurl.com/d4q38s #
  • is blog­ging: Said the Rain­drop to the Seed… http://tinyurl.com/dhxdfg #
  • - My house is so filthy but I really don’t feel like clean­ing it, ever again. #
  • @Hah­nee Woo! Go you! I wish we were in a posi­tion for Matt to do the same thing. in reply to Hah­nee #
  • - I know it’s short notice but any­one up for a St Pad­dys ‘din­ner party’ Tues­day? It’s a work night so no keg­ger but I NEED adult inter­ac­tion #
  • - My Mollys had babies! Baby fish are super cute! #

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Posted by Katie on September 9, 2008

What? Hospital = Death?

Okay, so some of you know this already, but I am 1000% for what I call “nat­ural” par­ent­ing. To me this means home­births, breast­feed­ing, intact gen­talia, lim­ited immu­miza­tions, etc etc. I feel that we’ve made it this far, thou­sands of years, with­out all the inter­ven­tions and place a lot of trust in our bod­ies and the com­plex inter­nal sys­tems that keep us alive.

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Every now and again I’ll run across some­thing that just totally solid­i­fies me in my want to avoid all inter­ven­tions when pos­si­ble. Here are some exceprts from “10 Home­birth Facts No One’s Telling You” on Indiebirth.com by Maryn Leis­ter. Please read the full arti­cle here.

 

2. The US has the high­est obstet­ri­cal inter­ven­tion rates of any coun­try. (1) The US is cur­rently ranked 28th for infant mor­tal­ity (that means 27 other coun­tries have a bet­ter rate of infant sur­vival than we do). 

  • How is it that med­i­cine is one of the most advanced coun­tries, in the world, yet our babies die in such numbers?

4. You are very likely to have a c-section if you chose a hos­pi­tal birth. The WHO con­cluded that there is no rea­son for any region of the world to have a cesarean rate of more than 10–15%. As of 2004, the US has a 29.1% c-section rate. This rate is up from 27.6% in 2003. (2, 20) (3) C-section infants also are four times more likely to die than those born vaginally. 

  • 4 times! 4 times more likely to die!! Granted a C-Section is a major abdom­i­nal surgery but still. Why would any­one be okay with a C-Section that wasn’t absolutely required?

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Both of my boys, arrived early and were hos­pi­tal births because of it. My old­est son spent two weeks in the NICU becaue the doc­tors felt that my womb was not the best place for him. They felt that they could help him bet­ter than I could. In the end, the doc­tors were wrong and should have left him alone.

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My youngest son was just in a hurry to get here. I was 2 days, maybe it was 4?, from being able to birth at home. Had I stayed home any longer he would have been and if I remem­ber cor­rectly (oxy­tocin has a ten­dency to make you for­get any­thing com­ing from some­one over 6 months old) my mid­wife stated she would not have sent us to the hos­pi­tal. Although he was early, he was strong and healthy. The hos­pi­tal kept him in the NICU for a week “just to make sure”, fed him for­mula and pumped him full of med­i­cine pro­phy­lac­ti­cally. Had they known my water was bro­ken for 10 days prior to deliv­ery they would have flipped a  lid.

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There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that any and all of my next child­births will be attempted home­births. You’ll only find me in a hos­pi­tal if some­thing is actu­ally wrong and med­ical inter­ven­tion is nec­es­sary. Some­times I strug­gle to keep my mouth shut but in the end I also respect a mother’s right to birth how she wants, granted that it was an edu­cated decision.

What were your child­birth expe­ri­ences like? Is there any­thing you would change?

Posted by Katie on July 23, 2008

Did you know?

That if you sub­scribe to my blog through an RSS Feeder that you can get a daily update on things I thought were cool enough to book­mark? For those of you who are a.) into crafts and sewing or b.) have strange quirky senses of humor it will totally knock your socks off! Check it out!

Posted by Katie on May 29, 2008

I’m torn

I read alot of blogs. Alot. I think there’s over 100 in my RSS reader last time I checked. Most of them I just scroll through unless some­thing catches my eye, except for the crafty ones that have to do with fam­ily, kids and such. I’m in love with the ideal that they por­tray — happy lit­tle fam­i­lies who eat organ­i­cally, spend their nights play­ing board games in an immac­u­late and orga­nized house and mom still has time to whip out beau­ti­fully crafted projects every day.

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I think it all con­tributes to how shitty I’ve felt about myself lately. I always thought that being a stay at home mom would the the be-all-end-all, but it’s really just a façade for hell. The day I quit my job was the day I turned into everyone’s bitch. All day long peo­ple demand things from me:

  • If they’re under 1 year demands are com­mu­ni­cated in ear-shattering, heart-wrenching squalls.
  • Between 2 and 18 demands are pro­duced in the form of nerve-grinding whines at the most inop­pur­tune times.
  • Over 18 and demands are best dis­guised as guilt or worded in such as way that they make me feel like a total fail­ure for not antic­i­pat­ing the demand sooner. 

I thought every­thing would be per­fect and it’s not even close. There’s a least 10 loads of laun­dry stuffed on the couch that I have no inten­tion of fold­ing. My mom or Declan is more likely to fold it than Matt is. I’ve man­aged two din­ners this week, burnt one and have no plans for any­thing tonight. Mom is want­ing me to start feed­ing Rowan solid food but I know that just trans­lates into more work for me because Matt has never fed Rowan once. I keep get­ting told that I’m not chal­leng­ing Declan enough but I can barely keep the kids in dry pants and full bel­lies. To get time to do some sewing basi­cally means that I put the baby­gate up in the kitchen and ignore every­thing. I’m so so slow that every­thing takes for­ever, If I rush stuff well… the qual­ity goes down.

I have no friends, other than long dis­tance or inter­net ones. I don’t know where I’m even going with this. I need a vaca­tion, but I don’t think I could leave the kids. Nor do I want to, I just want to stop being the 24/7 mom for awhile. But there’s mil­lions of moms in the world and they all seem to be fine. What’s wrong with me? I’m I just super lazy? Do I have to be will­ing to just shut my brain, hopes, wants and per­son­al­ity off for good (because heaven knows the older lit­tle boys get the more they demand)? What hap­pened to Me? When did it become a require­ment that I’m no longer con­sid­ered a per­son, just because I have chil­dren? I feel like a ser­vant and a poorly treated one at that.

Well, I’ve already sent a not so nice email to Matt so I guess I might as well post this too. I’m done wal­low­ing, maybe.

I need to get my thy­roid checked.